Our explicit job in our businesses is to help, to serve, to support. Especially when our people are “in it.” Feeling tender, raw, and triggered as they work through the deep material. These are the most important times to be resourced, loving, and present. And they’re the hardest ones! It’s not trivial to stay centered in those moments. That’s what people pay me for. It’s the reason I can charge what I charge for coaching […]
Category Archives: Video
09
Aug
Aug
We’re celebrating LIFE through art for my birthday this week! In honor of my greatest gift, baby Kanai, and the initiation into motherhood, my team created this stunning short film. It’s gorgeous. It makes me cry every time I watch it – the message is so so important to me. When Sri and I decided that we wanted to get pregnant, we knew we wanted the paradigm of this family to be win-win. What was […]
02
Aug
Aug
There’s a lot of ‘fake it till you make it’ positivity in the world. (I’m sure you’ve noticed.) How do you feel about it? Personally, I’m skeptical. In my own internal ecosystem, performing positivity has been harmful. I’ve harmed myself with my own demand to be positive all the time – as if that’s more spiritual than being negative. It sets up this duality that we’re supposed to be a certain way. And if we’re […]
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Jul
Jul
‘I’m whole, or I’m broken.’ ‘I’m good, or I’m bad.’ ‘I’m wealthy, or I’m broke.’ ‘I’m conscious, or I’m unconscious.’ Right? Binary thinking permeates our culture. As human beings, seekers, spiritual folks, healers – so much of what we are doing here on Earth is: Being confronted with oversimplified duality. Experiencing the contrast of what it feels like to be boxed into those restrictive options. Finding something else that isn’t either one of those things… […]
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Jul
Jul
It’s better for clients to be mad at you than to be mad at themselves. The space of self-attack is never conducive to growth or transformation. When clients are angry, especially with me, I ask them to tell me all about it. While they tell me, I do my best to listen without doing anything about it. I resist the temptation to express or even think thoughts that defend or protect or explain myself. This […]