Tag Archives: mindset

Saying The Thing is About Intimacy

Saying the thing is so much about intimacy. Saying the thing to each other means being more intimate with one another right now. Letting me witness you say the thing to each other is also intimate. Letting me see you have this connection is intimate.  Intimacy is a sophisticated, nuanced thing to choose and to co-create. I don’t know that it’s ever trivial. Ever. If we take it for granted, it’s less intimate. The sweet […]

Saying The Thing is Exponential Technology

Telling the truth is our primary exponential technology. How are we feeling in this moment? What wants to be said in this moment? It’s a great place to return to. So simple. As a practice, ask yourself – is there anything that wants to be said right now? Is there anything I’m holding back? Is there anything I’m wanting to hear? Source Material, Sales Full Stop, November 29, 2023 — Sign-up to receive my daily […]

What it means to wait to respond

When I decided to get pregnant, I had these visions of nursing while on a coaching call. I was super clear that he would be part of my service.  Sometimes I remember that. Sometimes I feel sheepish about how much he’s in my calls. It changes. Then yesterday, I got one of these somebody-puts-their-hand-on-your-forehead-and-doses-you-with-the-god-healing: The parenting decisions I’ve made are so primal I don’t even think about them. I’m still breastfeeding – that’s a parenting […]

How do you align with your true self?

How do you realign with your true self? I think this is the most important question anyone has ever asked. You can only ask it when you know as much as you know already. It’s not a question that everybody can ask. And it’s the most important question. And this is part of why we’re in a six-month rather than a six-day program. I can teach you all you need to know about how to […]

the best possible path

Do you believe that every time something terrible, catastrophic, frustrating, annoying, or disappointing happens that there is a better pathway that you are being directed to? Do you have that perspective? Everything is happening for my benefit. Everything is happening for all of our benefits. There’s definitely places where – both in the abstract when I look at the world – the Holocaust, terrible racism – I still have those edges to my own understanding […]