A note on incorrect mechanics: If you’re trying to push or force yourself (or force somebody else), you won’t be yourself. We’re not built to not be ourselves – so it won’t feel good to you to do it that way. A note on conditioning around people pleasing and codependency: Your ability, your comfort, your willingness to say the thing in the moment, whatever that thing is – to say the truth – that’s what […]
Category Archives: Sales
From a human design perspective, I am not mechanically built to talk to strangers. So it’s not surprising that for me, cold calls have mostly meant unexpected sales calls to people I know, whether a little or a lot. In the first months of my business, I made many of these kinds of calls: I dialed all the numbers on my phone and told the people that answered what I was up to, asked them […]
Recently I asked my advanced sales group a provocative question. What is the most troublesome pattern you’re noticing that sabotages your sales calls? Their responses were absolute gold. These people have been in a deep study of sales with me for several months now. Many of them have been working with me even longer. And it shows. Their awareness of patterns of sabotage is fine-tuned and brilliant. I want to share their nuggets of wisdom […]
I want to say one thing loud and clear to begin 2023. Selling them is serving them. Period. The end. We have to stop thinking about sales as something we “do to” someone. Sales IS HOW you serve people. It’s how you begin coaching relationships. There’s nothing more sacred. There’s nothing more beautiful. There’s nothing more loving. BECAUSE YOU DON’T WANT ANYONE TO BE A YES THAT’S NOT ACTUALLY A YES. There’s no coercion, there’s […]
Looking back at the real JJC success story (the story of our underlying energetics) I can clearly see the turning point. The moment where we kicked it into high gear and skyrocketed toward 7-figures. I had been teaching about sales, experiencing it as a spiritual practice, for some time…. But I was still hiding it behind closed doors. This is where I had been told and taught to go by God. So I did the […]