When you are your business – as all spiritual teachers, healers, and coaches are, at least in part – any place where you find yourself insecure creates a magnet for poking. As you work on your mindset, as you master sales, as you increase your visibility and impact… Those little bits of doubt, fear, and worry get amplified. And everyone can see. When I started my coaching business in 2016, fashion was a questionable arena […]
Tag Archives: mastery
24
Jan
Jan
The ego wants to be at the center. So why not let it be at the center? This is a pretty brilliant hack. You are the center of the universe (from your perspective). You’re also tiny and irrelevant (relative to the whole). So – you could not be smaller, AND – you’re right at the center. Let yourself have that. Let the ego have what it wants. Be the center that you already are. What […]
10
Jan
Jan
I want to say one thing loud and clear to begin 2023. Selling them is serving them. Period. The end. We have to stop thinking about sales as something we “do to” someone. Sales IS HOW you serve people. It’s how you begin coaching relationships. There’s nothing more sacred. There’s nothing more beautiful. There’s nothing more loving. BECAUSE YOU DON’T WANT ANYONE TO BE A YES THAT’S NOT ACTUALLY A YES. There’s no coercion, there’s […]
13
Sep
Sep
The idea that I will never cause harm is a kind of toxic perfectionism. It’s what has my clients put me on a pedestal – from which I can only fall. I cause harm – we all do. That doesn’t make it okay. But the awareness makes it possible for me to see what’s really happening, be present when I am confronted, and use it to go deeper. Just three weeks ago, a family member […]
06
Sep
Sep
In spiritual communities we love to talk about love. So much so that I’m hesitant to even have these conversations. We say: “Love is all there is.” But what does that really mean? It’s like… yeah, love. Of course. God is love and God is present in everything. That doesn’t mean we experience love and only love 24 hours a day! We’re human. And I don’t think we fully, properly describe the alternative. What I’ve […]