Do you believe that every time something terrible, catastrophic, frustrating, annoying, or disappointing happens that there is a better pathway that you are being directed to? Do you have that perspective? Everything is happening for my benefit. Everything is happening for all of our benefits. There’s definitely places where – both in the abstract when I look at the world – the Holocaust, terrible racism – I still have those edges to my own understanding […]
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Sep
Sep
From a human design perspective, I am not mechanically built to talk to strangers. So it’s not surprising that for me, cold calls have mostly meant unexpected sales calls to people I know, whether a little or a lot. In the first months of my business, I made many of these kinds of calls: I dialed all the numbers on my phone and told the people that answered what I was up to, asked them […]
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Aug
Aug
When I started transforming my tolerations, I was focused entirely on results. Big stuff like how much money I was making, the scale of my business, the way I felt about myself, the level of satisfaction I felt in my relationships. I used my tolerations to create a task list for myself, and transforming the things on that list was how I measured my progress. Over time, as I’ve transformed a lot of those big […]
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Aug
Aug
It’s so important that I mess things up. If I do everything as perfectly as I have been trained, programmed, and conditioned to do, y’all will never get mad at me. You will never have mixed feelings about me, which will be a disservice to you. It’s not always comfortable, but I want you to be able to feel the full range of feelings here and speak about it. It’s so important to ask for […]
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Mar
Mar
There’s a process of deep refinement happening in my business. It’s touching EVERYTHING. And it is a direct result of the science of Human Design; my study of it, and its impact on me. (Shoutout to my on-staff human design consultant Sam Zagar, a splenic projector who has seen me in ways I didn’t know I wanted until now.) Before Human Design, I was already prioritizing my capacity. I was already prioritizing my truth. I […]